Have You Found the Life You Wanted?

Every day, I search for satisfaction, joy, significance — life.

But I don’t always look for life in the right places. I search, but my quest often comes up empty. I keep chasing after something, but I lack what I’m seeking, even after I think I’ve found it. I hunt for purpose, but I’m left hungrier, thirstier, needier in the end.

I search for meaning in many pursuits — and I ask them to give me life — but they don’t. They can’t because I’m searching for water in the desert.

Only Jesus can give me what I’m really looking for.

Hardwired for Life

Humans are hardwired for significance. We were made to live forever, and this is what God always intended.

In his two latest books, A Peculiar Glory and Reading the Bible Supernaturally, John Piper describes the human soul as a template shaped for God, who is the epitome of value, excellence, and beauty. We were made for God. We were made to enjoy and delight in him forever, to truly live by loving him.

But we sin. We fall short of his glory. We reject God, the very definition of love and the Giver of life.

Our soul-templates remain, but our affections have been distorted. We cram marred, misshapen pursuits into our soul-template, only to find they don’t fit. They don’t satisfy, but leave us searching for more, better, different.

Sin cripples our search. So, we ask “life” of pursuits that can never give us what we seek.

David’s Search for Life

In Psalm 21, King David searches in the right place for the deepest desires of his soul: for God who gives life. And he finds what he’s looking for! He rejoices in the Lord’s strength and revels in his salvation:

You have given him his heart’s desire
and have not withheld the request of his lips.
For you meet him with rich blessings;
you set a crown of fine gold upon his head.
He asked life of you; you gave it to him,
length of days forever and ever.
His glory is great through your salvation;
splendor and majesty you bestow on him. (Psalm 21:2–5)

I was profoundly moved by the simplicity of David’s pursuit when I read this: “He asked life of you.”

Like me, like every human, David was searching for never-ending life. But in this case, he was searching for the right thing in the right place. The desires of his heart were molded by the template of his soul. And he found everything he wanted — everything God made him for — in God.

Sin’s Search for Life

God knows we need him, that our longings will only be fulfilled in knowing and walking closely with him. He is our ultimate end and eternal reward. But we’ve rejected him in sin, so we ask life of the wrong things.

We search for meaning in our vocation. We look at the work of our hands and ask, “Life?” But we fail and lose the promotion — or we wildly succeed and find that the money and perks gravely disappoint. Our work cannot give us life.

We search for meaning in our families. We look at our spouse and kids and ask, “Life?” But they don’t do or say what we want them to, making the days long and hard. Other times, they’re everything we hoped they’d be, but still we feel empty when we lay down our heads at night. Our families cannot give us life.

We search for meaning in what people think of us. We look at friends and strangers, in person and on social media, and ask, “Life?” But they criticize, deflating our significance, or they compliment, leaving us to crave their accolades. People cannot give us life.

We search for meaning in money and prosperity. We look at our possessions and savings accounts and retirement funds and ask, “Life?” We feel secure, but only when we have a safety net. Extra cash and more stuff appears to ease our worries, but only until it’s lost, taken, suddenly stripped from us. Money and possessions cannot give us life.

We search for meaning in health. We look at our bodies and faces and immune systems and ask, “Life?” We feel beautiful when the workout is done, the makeup is applied, and the weight is lost. We’re in control when the blood tests are negative, and the diagnosis is good. But when the disease returns or the wrinkles inevitably appear, fear increases. We see that death is real. Our health cannot give us life.

Where We Find Life

So, what can we do? Where do we turn? And to whom?

We ask, “Life!” of the only One who can give it to us — eternally, freely, totally. Like David, we ask it of our Lord, whom we know to be the way, the truth, and the life (John 14:6). We seek to know the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom he sent, for this is eternal life (John 17:3). We hide in Christ our life, waiting for him to appear so we will also appear with him in glory (Colossians 3:3–4), finally tasting the “length of days” for which we’ve been waiting, craving, searching.

Believer, seek Jesus, who is your life. Jesus is the greater David, the King who truly lives forever, the resurrected one who gives us abundant life and eternal hope from his victory over death (John 11:25; Revelation 1:18).

Return to this Eternal King whenever your sinful heart wanders. The beauty of God’s mercy and grace is that it’s new every morning (Lamentations 3:23). His faithfulness is great when yours isn’t. Your failed, flawed, flagrantly sinful attempts to search for life in the wrong places are covered in Christ’s righteousness. His life has always been perfectly tuned to his Father’s will and glory, and now it’s yours by grace through faith.

The more you soak in God’s grace through Jesus and enjoy his favor, the more you’ll find that the life you’ve been searching for is in him.

[Post Credit: Desiring God]